It is listeningto a parent cry about her crumbling marriage. Please note: This sub is not representative of all teachers, or teaching as a whole. Our poor kids. Im finishing up my 37th year of teaching at the elementary level; 7 years as a bilingual teacher in California and 30 years in Michigan. They are the ones that care endlessly, almost to a fault. I have written some of the same things on my website, SmartHelpForStudents. Although fear of math is not a purely female phenomenon, girls tend to drop out math sooner than boys, and adult women experience an aversion to math and math-related activities that is akin to anxiety. If we hadnt moved across the country, Id still be there. No, I said. Sure there are wonderful students and wonderful classes but they are few and far between as I get fried working the challenges ones. I can really relate to so much of this. That, and the hourly battle that is cell phones. You Don't Hate Teaching, You Hate the System - March 15, 2022; The Dismantling of Public Education Part 4: Regression - March 4, 2022; Teachers Who Teach in Schools in Lower-Income Communities Don't Get the Respect They Deserve - February 28, 2022; The Dismantling of Public Education Part 3: Privatization - February 25, 2022 Suddenly, when they find themselves thinking, I hate teaching! and hoping for a change, they not only feel burned out, but they feel stuck. They stay in a career that is making them truly unhappy. Whoops sorry, Ms. B! They grumbled, but then they put the technology away, and they turned to their peers,and they wondered. The air inside your classroom walls is probably thick with the stench ofIts not my fault, its yourfault, and it sure seems likethe smell is coming from the students. I know how to push my way through the muck of our politically driven, ill-informed, and unrealistic goal setting public school system. I started teaching when I was 45. Parents requested that their children be put in my classes. Whatever I end up doing for life, I want it to be with children. Then why are some big-shot technology CEOssending their kids to computer-free Waldorf Schools? You can too! So many teachers struggle with Impostor Syndrome, underestimating the value and skills they bring to the table in any situation. You tell them at conferences, I became a mothera few years ago, and I must shamefully admit I get it now. I couldnt agree more. They would all probably take different approaches to it. English and Drama at a California Distinguished School for 14 years. But I also saw that teachers at that school looked genuinely happy. Data. If you start school thinking that you will hate your teacher, you probably will. They would make 2-3 years of growth because I challenged them daily and created a very rigorous program for each of my first graders on their own level. However the joy I felt every day going to work and showing the kids the beauty of history and what you could learn from the stories kept me going, Those kids were so receptive. Well, hello, Life Twin! Would love to learn more about your #5 above, about how the obsession with technology makes you CRAZY. I can totally see that. The average person changes careers 12 times in their lifetime. Editor's Note: If you enjoyed this article, please become a Patreon supporter by clicking here. I struggled with not knowing what else I could do. At some point, just about everyone has satin a classroom. Teacher guilt is very, very real and can be very, very powerful. Have I always been successful, not always but when a student returns (emails, sends a letter) telling me about the impact that I have had on them, I know that my efforts were not in vain. I am at times used as an example by administration. Even though the good kids bring light into my day, the bad make me think about whether or not its worth it. But, yes, I do miss the kids. But Im alive and healthy and I still do what I love. You can hear all about my story of transitioning out of the classroom on the Teacher Career Coach Podcast. Now that Ive taken a ten year break, I think I should just go back and let my initial license lapse. But I refused to accept that was the only reason it was a hard year. To make matters worse, a child who had special educational needs was subjecting me to frequent physical assaults. Thank you so much, Kelly! I immediately opened my classroom door and said very loudly lets listen to the anthem from the hallway speakers since our classroom intercom is not working. As a teacher, you know it is exceptionally easy to fool kids into thinking you are following the prescribed curriculum even when you are not, that way if they are ever asked by an administrator, it will appear like your doing what you are supposed to be. Its not differentiated enough, they were told, and therefore is a waste of valuable class time. THE KIDS ARE IN THIRDGRADE. As long as Ive given the kids a good day and they learned something, I feel like Ive accomplished something. After retiring, I discarded almost everything from my teaching days. Amazing. But a change in leadership has helped me fall back in love with education. Despite these challenges, many teachers continue to push themselves above and beyond rather than seriously considering quitting. We have chosen and studied education know what we are doing, and no what to do for these kids, and at the end of the day, that is enough for me. I think we do not stress the importance of finding the right school for teachers. My parents advice: I had to go back to teaching, (FWIW: my therapist, my psychiatrist, and my medical doctor told me to do anything BUT teach.) Thank you for writing it. But lets be honest: its in a mom bun 97% of the time. Allow me to introduce the top 10 parent types that every teacher secretly hates: 1. As such, I am leaving a government job for one in a private institution to help develop strategies to build the capacities of all staff (non-teaching staff included). Your blog is great. Great reading, perfect emphasis of the main points. This is the article. So, when the expectations of administration or parents start to weigh heavily, the never-ending to-do list becomes unbearable, the lack of work-life balance starts to take its toll, these teachers push themselves past their breaking point. Have a four year old son And I absolutely adore kids. Ive never hated a job more, to be totally honest. Our beloved works of fiction arent just getting elbowed aside by facts and figures. We need you. However, after a lot of research, planning, and applying, I landed my dream role as an educational consultant. Here's Why I'm Still Mourning. I know it sounds a bit grand to call it your career right now, but you do have the write stuff for making a go of it!! At this point, I was devastated, but I wasnt going to let this prick know it. More things are added to teachers' plates every year and rarely is anything removed. It is difficult and time-consuming to truly get to know the standards for all of the curriculum (possible understatement of the year! Were tired of people acting like theyre in charge of us teaching when they know nothing about it. A very important article. All the entitlement and the trophies and the apathy and whatever. Maybe in a private school if I could afford it, otherwise, definitely not a public school teacher. I dont want to be a teacher like Mr. St. In addition, all student work must have one positive and one critical note attached for each student. It was a middle school which was not the age of students I wanted to teach, I ideally wanted to be at a high school. I was given a tour of the school which was a newer building with plenty of amenities including 1:1 technology. DATA. They offered the job and I took it - I was obviously elated to get my own classroom so early! What are you planning to do if/when you leave? Would your days be filled with joy and sunshine if you could travel the world while making the income you deserve? Aprecious few retired with a full career in their rearview but, like Nancie Atwell, even they might advise the potential teachersof today to choose something else. Wewere students, after all. The Teacher Career Coach community, resources, and course are all here to help people like you and me who, for whatever reason, are looking for an exit strategy. This should be required reading for every legislator in Lansing and in every other state Capitol. Thanks for reading this, if you made it this far. . Your day does not resemble that of a typical white-collar professional. I let fate and a cross-country movemake it for me, and there are a lot of incredible things about teaching that I really miss. Get rid of phones, google, computers (go back to Libraries and Dewey Decimal System!) Im writing a book covering a ton of the history of computers in education, going way way WAY way back to the very beginning, 1960, and then even before that with Skinner and teaching machines. I used to be able to shape my own instruction to my student needs. My daughter taught middle school and high school English for 7 years. I literally loved going to work every day up until about 8 years ago when things in my school district became all about buzz words (I cant stand to hear the word robust anymore), data driven education, Danielsons Framework for Teaching, restorative practices and micro managing everything you do in the classroom. The kids are great and I will miss them when I leave. We dont have target cards, because how does that really help pupils to learn? I jus loved this article. I Left Teaching for a New Career. I want to thank you for all of these things. Since our jobs are not real jobs lets leave the profession and go elsewhere. I remember one day last year we were going on a field trip and I skipped the Pledge of Allegiance on the intercom because I was busy counting money. But I edit scientific manuscripts for a living now, and Ive promised myself I will not end up in the classroom on a full-time basis again. Im sick. It's like being in a cult. We began making huge, HUGE progress with the kids who needed it the most and, naturally, with a challenging population the test scores werent all that hot. When I have been able to hire staff I always look for teachers. But even brand new teachers can tell: the view looks a whole lot different from behind the podium. I loved it at first. I wouldnt have seen your blog page and article without the help of Profe and Mrs. Crow. Courses with real-world value(home economics, for example, or shop class) are dying a not-so-gradual death, as there is no Foods & Nutrition section on the SAT. Id have to agree with Francesca: its more about a misapplication of what could be an asset, and a serious lack of time/funding for training. Now we dont even have a dress code anymore! In the middle of the pledge a young man ran up to my desk and said the principal was looking into my classroom window and wrote something down in her notepad. How wonderful to hear from you, Courtney! It helps if the kids like you because they will warn you when an administrator is outside your door. These students treat me like I am less than human. Theres no magic answer here. Challenge them. You are doing important things. Unfortunately, too many teachers end up staying in a profession that they no longer are passionate about for various reasons (but Ill dig into those in just a moment). You were such a good teacher! Creativity has been crushed. Maybe I wont do it. The best teaching I have ever engaged in had nothing to do with mandated curricular content. I was still basking in the glow of this momentthe kind of moment that real teachers live forwhen I was called into the big bosss office. Except, what people don't realize is that as a teacher, you're often at school before you need to be, there long after you have to be, and you work through your lunches, evenings, and weekends . EP 01 Introducing The Teacher Career Coach Podcast. Wondering if there is any wisdom for those who do choose to leave early? , We all know teachers who are miserable and should have left the profession years ago. The parents are absent. Im telling you, some positions out there were practically designed for former teachers. The Stockton Police Department said that a teacher at George Lincoln Mosher Elementary School was arrested on Friday afternoon. ), technology has become the mind-numbing thief of imagination, and in no way does your day resemble that of any other college-educated, white-collar worker. I went on my first interview yesterday and I will find out tomorrow if theyre extending an offer. But I filled out applications all over the state; anywhere but where I came from. I always do paper work while the kids are in front of me and leave school right when the bell rings. They forget thats when we go to school, change lessons, write curriculum, etc. Everyone wants out. What I do not know how to do is maintain my sanity with the EVER GROWING behavior issues. 9 Signs its the Right Choice. The kids. Its so interesting to hear that people in your position are experiencing some of the same demands. Brilliant kids, both of them. This is the biggest bunch of BS from a person with cry baby Union mentality! Thank you Ms. Bowers. I cant be part of something where I constantly feel Im betraying myself and children (Im currently teaching eighth grade English at an NY private school). After surveying thousands of teachers and former teachers, Ive compiled the data to understand the trends behind this unique situation. Why? When sheran her first Toddler Turkey Trot lastNovember,the people in charge asked if I wanted to buy her a medal. They add up the points based on that framework and if you get those points, then youre an exceptional teacher. Within and outside of work, year-round, teachers put the job first. Recently divorced with a mortgage and terrible credit, I was literally stuck. We watched our teachers some we loved, some not so much and because ofthat lengthy, multi-year observation we assume we know what they do for a living, because we sat in a classroom for years and years and years, and. Students are not products tumblingoffa cookie-cutterassembly line. Where are they going to get people like me as salaries drop, tests get dumber and dumber, benefits are slashed, and teaching is more and more of a mechanical exercise than the art it used to be? It still hurts. I miss teaching very much. Required fields are marked *. Its a nightmare. I loved teaching the summer art camp and working with kids. I teach art (and coached basketball) and am unhappy! This course, created with the help of an HR expert and professional resume writer with over 10 years of experience, will help you navigate your career transition. Another California/Michigan resident! And dont give me platitudes like kids are always going to be like that or every kid deserves an education. Of course every child deserves an education! I know how hard it feels to transition out of teaching. After two decades of teaching, this is the phrase I hear the most: I hate teaching. Its such a shame when energetic, enthusiastic teachers are not able to continue. Now what? I never put in a repair order because it was actually working and no one ever brought it up. MUST READ. My colleges thought I was an idiot. I can't believe how fast I've become angry and bitter. But I might argue that our job is also to challenge our students withsomething. It twists me up inside. Teacher shortage? that I had to suffer through because someone else said they knew better. The goals of getting on the tenure track and working toward your pension start early on. What a moving and accurate account of what is going on in education today. I have 7 years until I retire. Things that elicited comments of, School is fun! And This is the best class ever! Nope, unacceptable. Dont want to teach. What were the reasons that led me to leave the classroom? So thank you to both of you! After a year without them, you might miss their unbridled school spirit during Homecoming Week, their contagious sense of humor, the way they draw pictures for youand wave joyous hellosin the hallways. Once again, Im stuck. Now I work in a large school system where no one really knows whats going on anyway so its easy to do what I want. Im Michigan, born and bred. I dont want to do it. Or work until lunch and cook a big dinner for your family? But I might argue that our job is also to challenge our students withsomething new and, to this generation, technology is not new. I also work at an alternative high school. I hated how it changed me and how it impeded other aspects of my life. In fact, my test scores have come up over 30% over last year. Aargh! 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